Manual Stimulation (internal)
by Frank
Senne
Internal stimulation of the prostate has its moments too, yet
requires your ability to let go and trust your partner to the fullest
extent. Please make sure that you have read our notes on "Hygiene",
"Precautionary
Measures" and the "The
XXX Files". Should you have skipped one of those sections, now
would be a good time to catch up.
Note:
In all the following instructions you
should use a water-based lubricating agent. We recommend either
Astroglide or the London product (London Lubricating Agent, Scent-free,
200 ml bottle, Art.-No. 679 015, € 10,99).
Another Note:
Relax, as otherwise anal penetration
can be unnecessarily painful and a real turn-off. It was frequently
reported to us that a slight "pressing" down, as though you
were emptying your bowels, can facilitate penetration.
Manual Techniques
- You should lie on your back, bend your knees, while opening your
legs. This allows your partner free and easy access to all erogenous
zones in this region. This simple procedure applies to all the
following methods of stimulation (you can of course lie on your back
if you prefer it. Adapt the applicable instruction accordingly).
- Have your partner stimulate the whole anal region. You will find
that the sexual excitement caused by this can be very intense and
pleasurable.
- Request your partner to carefully insert only one finger, lavishly
anointed with lubricating agent, into your anus. It might be an idea
to keep the penetration relatively shallow at first, so you can get
used to the sensation.
- After full penetration has taken place, your partner will be able
to feel the prostate through the bowel lining with the tips of the
finger. Stimulation should only commence once you and your partner
are sure to have located the correct spot.
- With the palm of the hand turned up, your partner can now slowly
and carefully begin to massage your prostate applying gentle
pressure. A slight rotational movement or a "come hither"
motion is very popular too.
- Once you have gotten used to the sensation of anal penetration,
you can ask your partner to insert a second finger. This allows for
more intense stimulation then is possible by the solitary pressing
and rubbing of only one finger.
- If penetration of two fingers has taken place the prostate can be
"clamped". It is thus possible to apply the massage
to both sides of the prostate.
- All above methods of stimulation are of course an ideal addition
to other types of sexual stimulation (manual and/or oral caressing
of penis or testicles).
Techniques employing Aids/Toys
- You should lie on your back, bend your knees, while opening your
legs. This allows your partner free and easy access to all erogenous
zones in this region. This simple procedure applies to all the
following methods of stimulation (you can of course lie on your back
if you prefer it. Adapt the applicable instruction accordingly).
- Have your partner stimulate the whole anal region. You will find
that the sexual excitement caused by this can be very intense and
pleasurable.
- Spread a lavish amount of lubricating agent on anus and vibrator
(considerate partners will remember to warm up the lubricating agent
with their hands) and carefully insert the vibrator into the anus.
- The angle at which the vibrator is held after penetration is of
vital importance. It should be bent back slightly (if you are lying
on your back, the vibrator should be pointing towards the mattress),
so the tip of the vibrator exerts pressure on the prostate lying
behind the bowel.
- Once you and your partner are sure that the angle of penetration
of the vibrator is correct, turn on the vibration.
- Perform light encircling movements with the vibrator, ensuring
that the whole prostate region is stimulated.
- You can, of course, perform thrusting movements with the tip of
the vibrator touching the prostate.
Be creative and open to new things and you will find additional means
for the internal prostate stimulation.
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